Don’t feel bad.
When you look back to see that I’ve receded like ocean waves,
nearly gone from your view.
Receded from the shores of a life I could never truly claim
to begin with.
What you didn’t see was that I was already teetering.
One foot in front of the other on a tightrope of lack
and I made it look good.
I did.
I’ll pay myself that compliment.
I earned it.
The very fact that you’re surprised that
I’ve disappeared from your day to day,
a sign that I was pulling it off,
this playing at life like a pony tailed school girl
in a dress with black and white Oxfords and
bobby socks to match,
playing with dolls in
the dollhouse her father made for her.
You thought I was present, really here,
experiencing what you were, seeing what you saw,
feeling what you felt, needing what you need,
but a tightrope walker like me
can only ever have one thought amidst the tension
“Don’t look down.”